Confession of a shopaholic

So here’s my confession as a shopaholic who try to write a blog:

1. blogging about my shopaholic activity,thought and tips is not as easy as swapping my credit card

Yes, now i give all of my respect to bloggers who consistently write on their blog and come with original idea. seriously, for me, to come up with a fresh idea about something to write is not easy. To review some new stuff is also a hard task for me as my review can be biased with my own personal opinion, not to forget that finding the new stuff itself is a challenge, i relied too much on other blogs. To blog frequently is really really a challenge for me, i don’t know why shopping is easy, but write about shopping is hard lol. and to maintain my blog to attract my niche audiences, i almost fail this one! so please accept my apology if you think i don’t deserve to call myself a shopaholic since my blog is so awful and don’t reflect a true shopaholic.

2. I did more crime than a serial shoplifter!

By this i mean…how many image theft i did before (with help of mr. Google)?how many illegal download i did before (again, mr. Google is my ‘personal buying assistance’ here)? how many intellectual property i stole before? i am definitely worse than a shoplifter!

3. receive a comment about my blog is like receiving a comment of whether  a dress is nice on me or not, some people are just lying about it (especially the shop assistant!)

most of my friends will say “it’s good” but i don’t know whether it’s good enough. and probably some other friends prefer to keep silence rather than commenting “it’s a total crap” because they don’t want to hurt my feeling.

4. there are people that should be paid as much as those fashion designers

web designer should! designing a template for a blog is certainly as difficult as designing new fashion outfit. and yet many of them create and share it for free (i don’t know if it’s really free or whether they get some money from somewhere else, but many of those nice templates are available for free, i am amazed). so i give all of my respect to those who are able to design a web, and especially to one whose template i use right now. thank you!

5. I may experience bankruptcy (worse than if you are on credit card debt) because of copyright infringement if i misuse people’s intellectual property.

6. finding shopaholics who want to read my blog is as difficult as trying to sell products to customers

i believe shopaholics are everywhere, but they may just not aware of my blog existence, my blog’s popularity is not that high thay it won’t appear on the first page of google finder when someone type ‘shopaholic blog’. I should keep fighting, in the era of long tail, everything could happen, right? i just need to find the right method to secure a place for my blog in this kind of ‘competition’.

7. I might have fallen in love with this blog and continue writing on it to share my experience with fellow shopaholics out there

so stay tune, i will be back, telling more of my shopaholic experience. Mid year sale is now coming, i’m ready to shop and will be back with lots and lots shopping bags and stories to share :P

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(my own list of) things to buy in winter

It’s June already!

time for seasonal buying… i can’t really decide whether i love it or not when the season changes and you feel that you need  to buy new things because last year’s winter stuffs is ‘outdated’.

so here’s my list of things to buy on winter 2010:

1. New nice coat

I originally lived in a tropical country where a coat is not needed (who wants to wear a thick coat in a humid 30 celcius day?). so when i moved to Melbourne 3 years ago, in July 2007, i  only brought some jackets. and i don’t know why, i love seeing people wear nice coats, i think i have a coat-fettish!lol so that’s why i reallyyyy want a new coat. in fact i seldom wear coat even when weather is freaking cold, the coat i bought last year was only worn about 3-4 times. here i show you the coat (brand: blessed are the meek), it’s still in really nice condition, and believe it or not, it was only $16! ( RRP $200) (don’t envy me, i found this one in a hidden factory outlet that not open for public, thank to my friend that worked there ;P)

$16 for blessed are the meek coat?yes it is!

2.Ugg boots and/or slippers

Ugg boots

to be honest, i don’t know whether i am suitable to wear ugg boots, some people wear them and didn’t look so nice on them. i might give them a try first since they are quite pricey and i will feel guilty if i buy them but not even wear them more than once. and as for slipper…i actually have a pair of cute and warm warner brothers’ tasmanian devil slippers ( i am a huge fan of Tazzie devil). but i still one the new one (remember, i am a bit shopaholic by nature, so one is not enough lol)

my cute fluffy tazzie slippers

3. electric blanket/ new portable heaters

Heater has already included as my apartment facilities, but the thing is…it consumes too much energy. hence i need the portable one with less energy consumption. or…an electric blanket (yeah yeah, i have a warm doona, just want to know how it feels using the electric one ;D )

4. leather gloves

again, i don’t know whether in the end i will even wear this or not. I’m going to have a 4-days vacation to tasmania this winter, and in my mind, it will be colder there so i need to keep myself warm.

5. DJ-style headphones

i want headphones because i’m not confidence enough to wear earmuffs, they makes me look like 15years old girl. so i don’t need the headphones for listening to the music (i prefer the original earphones from my apple iPod), but i need one to protect my ears from cold :D

Audio technica-ath fw3. source: itechnews.net

and the one i want is this cute button headphones from audio-technica brand (RRP $99) but i don’t know where to find it outside eBay (i’m afraid those on eBay will be fake!it’s only $24.99 on eBay!could you believe that?), may check electronics shop soon.

so there goes my list…how about yours?

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iPad Fever…Who’s in?

Finally, iPad has been launched in Australia this week… so June 2010 will be the month of  iPad frenzy! Electronic and gadget shops like JB Hi-Fi and  Dick Smith Electronics are now promoting iPad everywhere.

iPad is here!

Now let me give my personal review on iPad. I haven’t seen the actual iPad yet but been planning to see it tomorrow. but from many online reviews and from apple website itself, I found that iPad is actually a…. HUGE iPOD TOUCH!

Well, before you accuse me of being an Apple hater, let me explain my ‘history’ with Apple products. I’m not a mac user, but I’m not a mac/Apple hater as well (last week I just bought a 8GB iPod Touch to replace my iPod Nano 3rd gen, and i previously owned iPod shuffle 1st gen and iPod Nano 2nd gen as well. And I’m already planning to buy a macbook if I need to replace my current HP notebook).

It just…it just that iPad offers very limited features… For me, iPad can’t even be called a netbook yet (I remember that I promised myself to get a ‘mac netbook’ as soon as it’s available about a year ago. and I know iPad is not really categorized as netbook (more like an eBook reader, maybe? enemy of Kindle?? But with limited choices of Australian books, sadly…), but please, allow me to compare it with netbooks, as I don’t know what other product should be compared with iPad.

Honestly, after seeing what iPad offers…… a chance that I’ll grab this “mac netbook” now is about 0.01%… Yeah, I don’t think I’ll get one).

WHY?

Here’s my personal view about iPad (trying to be as objective as possible, even that I already told you that I’m not really impressed):

1. Design

The design is quite nice, lightweight and handy. 10Hours battery seems  nice. Touchscreen tech by apple is, as always, incredible (I own a tablet PC of another computer brand, and to be honest, my tablet PC’s touchscreen sensitivity is worse than my iPod touch). But, yet again, touchscreen is not everyone’s fave.  And one thing bothers me, we need to hold it all the time we use it if we don’t have a dock or iPad case, totally a let down for me….(that’s why, if you grab your iPad today, I strongly recommend to buy an iPad keyboard dock for A$89, so it will solve the problem for a ‘not touchscreen lover’ person, and an A$48 iPad case to protect and becomes a stand of your iPad).

iPad Keyboard Dock

iPad case

2. Features

What could I say? it’s 90% the same as an iPod touch! mail, youtube, safari, notes, maps, video, etc, are also the basic features of an iPod touch/iPhone. The only different features that iPad provide are an application to read eBook and iWork (again, I’m not a mac user, I don’t know what iWork does, I assume it’s like Microsoft Office. CMIIW, but I think not many people familiar with this iWork. And for the moment, we cannot install Microsoft Office on iPad, so how a ‘totally not tech savvy’ and ‘not a mac user’ like me will survive with iPad, I need something Windows!).

The only extra feature will be those ‘over 1000 applications specially designed only for iPad’ that Apple claims (together with 150,000 iPod touch applications) which means more entertainments and games are available.It’s quite a nice offer, I love game applications for iPod (if you haven’t tried playing Angry Bird or Doodle Jump, beware! They are addictive!),  so i assume the one for iPad will be nicer. But IMHO,  for gaming, I prefer smaller gadget like iPod touch, or Nintendo DSi or PSP, not a bulky 9.7inch iPad, it will torture my hand to hold it while I’m playing with it…well, again, you can disagree with me.

3. Overall value

With A$629 attached as its price for 16GB one (A$799 for 16GB with 3G tech), and A$ 1,048 for the 64GB with 3G…it’s not worth the money. The memory capacity is too small. and if you argue that ‘ I need a netbook’, trust me, you’d better grab a A$400-A$500 netbook from other brands (you can even have a nice brand new notebook with A$1,000!). One main reason to not buy an iPad for me:  AFAIK, iPad DOES NOT have USB 2.0 port, you can’t connect any of your external memory device. if you want an entertainment gadget, grab an iPod touch. And if you are an iPhone/iPod touch owner already (unless you are an Apple freak and MUST have every apple product,), you’d better spend your money on something else and wait until Apple releases 2nd/3rd generation of iPad which offers greater features and specs.

I agree it looks nice and you probably feel you are part of the ‘cool’ generation if you own iPad now, but from my experience, it’s always better to wait until the 2nd/3rd generation of Apple product comes out (remember iPhone 3G?iPod Nano?) because the product will be slightly improved. Well still, in the end, you are the one who decide.

To make my review unbiased, just watch this CNET review on iPad and hopefully you’ll find something interesting about iPad (yet, the guy also said that it looks like a huge iPod touch, so it’s not only me!lol)

So, iPad fever! Who’s in…?

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the (dis)satisfaction of online shopping

I am addicted to online shopping!

source: http://www.ifoundries.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/ist2_6184912-online-shopping-xxl.jpg

until now, i have bought online: several clothes, shoes, plush toy, books, CDs, small goods (accessories, sunnies, etc), birthday gifts for my friends who live interstate/abroad, even i bought my $1000 laptop, $500 camera and the latest one… iPod touch online.

without doubt, i am highly addicted to online shopping >.<

if you ask me the reason why i became addicted to online shopping, i don’t have any particular reason.

hang on, let me think for a sec… here’s my answer:

1. i have 24 hours internet connection at home

2. i have my debit mastercard with me (i hate using credit card for shopping since it gets me uncontrolled of my money)

3. i seldom have a chance to go out shopping

4. i can’t describe it, but there is something thrills me everytime i finally received the items that i bought online (this one is the one that makes me addicted!)

so, do i always love what i bought online? ermmm, not really. i often:

1. get pissed off because of the quality is not like what i expected, some items were extremely rubbish T.T

2. especially for clothes and shoes, they often don’t fit me well!

3. expected to get my item on a certain day because i want to use/wear it on an event, but then i got the item reaaallly late so i couldn’t use it on that day.

do these reason make me stop? NO

i admit i was often disappointed by my online shopping experience, but most of the time, i found real bargain from online shopping. For example, the laptop i bought for $1000 from an American seller was actually about $2000 in Australia. so i save 50% off the RRP! so does with my camera (i found it better to buy electronics from foreign country, i don’t know why, but electronics are much more expensive in Australia)

and my latest 8GB iPod touch! i bought it from Dick Smith Electronics website when they have 2-days special deals last month for iPod touch. so the RRP shown in Apple website for 8GB iPod touch is $268 (although you can get it cheaper from some electronics shop like JB Hi-Fi or Dick Smith), and i got it for…..$218 including free delivery and bonus wall charger and mobile charger! a real bargain!

$218 8GB iPod touch package-online deal only from Dick Smith

so here’s some tips from me (i hope it’ll help, i have bought things online since 2008):

1. if you are buying from eBay or similar sites, look at seller’s reputation and feedback, make sure other previous buyers didn’t have any hassle dealing with this seller. pay more attention on seller’s term and condition and any other policy such as refund and return policy.

2. beware of knock-off and fake products! especially if you buy things like electronics or designer’s handbags. Usually the seller will put more than 1 picture of the item, if it’s only one, and not from the actual product (so it might be taken from somewhere else) beware! for handbags, i found a forum which can help you authenticate and make sure the bag you are about to buy is genuine: The Purse Forum

Here’s a nice video about knock-off ipod:

3. As you pay online, make sure the web is secured (look at the web address, it should start with https instead of http), use paypal is better than exposing your credit card number online.

4. if you never purchased anything onnline before, try by buying some cheap item first before buying something expensive (who knows that your address is hard to find).

5. lastly, beware! online shopping may be addicted!

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Because….uh…because it’s nice!

(This one is gonna be my short post to fill this week blog entry, well i need to update my blog, right?)

so, my friend confessed, “i once bought a $1000 coat and i haven’t even worn it.” and i asked,”then why did you buy it?”, he answered,” because it’s really nice!and it’s Ralph Lauren!” (to the friend i cite here, high-five if you read this! *wink*)

sometimes we don’t need strong reason for why we bought something (or we try to ‘validate’ our action).

i can’t remember how many times i went home with one or more purchased item(s) that half of them i actually don’t need, don’t have confidence to wear, or don’t really fit me. and whenever i tried to remember the reason i bought it, the answer will always be:

1. because it looks nice (even that nice boots actually hurts your feet like hell)

2. because it’s heavily discounted and just one left!i need to buy it before someone else grab it

3. it’s a ‘must-have’ item this season (even if it makes me look fat!lol)

looking at my wardrobe, i find many outfits that i never have a chance to wear or just worn once because they actually don’t look good on me.

here is one of the example:

a gorgeous shocking pink mini dress that i bought last year. it still has the tag attached! the reason i haven’t worn it because pink isn;t really a color i would wear, and i was buying it just because it was 50% off. oh well….

look!pricetag still there!

Imagine if i weren’t buy them, i would have used my money on something more useful. oh well… can shopaholic fight against impulse buying?i don’t think so…

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choosing the ‘outfit’ of my blog is like choosing the right shoes

I was a little bit disappointed when knowing that i couldn’t use template other than the one provided by wordpress without upgrading the service. that means that i can only use limited choices of templates that provided by wordpress while i actually find a ‘cute’ shopping theme template available for free.

hence, i use this one. I’ve been changing my blog template and headers several times. i couldn’t decide which one i should use. It’s really like choosing the right shoes. New shoes always hurt my feet and finding perfect shoes is really difficult task, even for a shopaholic (well all of my friend usually have the same problem with shoes). no matter how cute they are, sometimes they just don’t fit!

some of my shoes collections, half of them hurt my feet!

So does choosing my blog design!

Like Alan Lui (2004: 206) said:

“Style is a transmission code, a means of signaling that a certain message is intended for specific audience.”

So choosing the right design for myy blog is important to connect to my audiences. The first hard task is choosing header! It was really a time consuming task for me. one of the reason is because I grow my awareness of copyrighted picture that makes me hesitated to use picture i found using google. I’ve just realized that most of the pictures i found on google are actually copyrighted and need license to use it , especially if the pictures were cartoons or digitalized image. We need to purchase the license, which worth from as cheap as around 10$ per year to more than 100$ per year (OMG! before this time, i just copied and pasted images i found on google the way i like even though i’ve read the word ‘picture may be subject to copyright. blame my ignorance!)

current image on the header that i’m using now is the one i found on google too, so i have to admit and acknowledge where i found it(before someone sue me). It’s featured in New York Times article about the  new Saks Avenue shopping bags ( the first time i saw the shopping bags, i wish i were in US so i could have one too!). and please note: no copyright infringement intended (want to know more about copyright and creative commons, click here )

The saks avenue shopping bags picture is chosen because it fits my blog theme. about shopping… the word ‘want it’ on the bag connected to my blog address ‘grabmeplease’. hence i use this one for now. I want the readers who visit my blog know right away that this blog is about shop, shopaholic, buying and anything related to consumer behavior. The colours also fit my black-and-white theme.

as for the layout, i am using two column themes with white background. the reason: I imagine this blog as ‘a shop’ and if i go shopping, i will prefer to enter a shop with enough lighting, bright and simple (hence the white background). and I choose two-column style because i don’t want ‘the shop’ will be too crowded with stuffs (so i don’t want my blog to be too crowded with many unnecessary details and i found three-column style too crowded). OK, call me cheesy, but that’s the only reason i really feel about my decision to use this current theme.

So for an illustration, here i also include a pic of a nice shop (again, i am using Google!). This is the role model of how my shop blog looks like.

Anteprima Plastiq shop interior design showcase at Festival Walk, Hong Kong

I would like to post many entries with plenty of pictures in it since it will be boring to read a blog with not enough picture, and again, my stupid and naive philosophy of  ‘my blog is a shop’, shop should have things to look at, we are buying things, we need to see it. so, you should expect at least one picture per blog post here.

Okay, that’s all about my blog design. i hope i won’t change my mind again or i need to re-write this post to explain the new design. I feel comfortable with my current shoes blog design right now. Adios!

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(re)introducing: Unuseless

I first heard of the unuseless inventions from my friend who takes product design management as her study. and i found it really funny and i think it’s worthy enough to share.

Unuseless (aka Chindogu) is the term for the intention first introduced in Japan. The term is for the stuff that is not useless, can be useful…but…can be pointless or become very ridiculous as well that no one will want to wear it wihout the fear of being laughed at. There is a book by Kenji Murakami: A  Big Bento Box of Unuseless Japanese Invention that explain more about these strange inventions

the first example (as you can see, it’s featured in the cover of chindogu book) is this noodle eater’s hair guard (picture). it’s very usefull to cover your hair when you are eating noodle. but will you wear this? personally, i will say ‘hell no!’ i will never wear something like this in front of the public (but it’s ok tho to wear this when no one is looking haha).

another one (well in fact, for this one, i want to have one, it’s handy and useful IMHO): butterstick

Having a baby? You can use your baby to clean the floor while s/he’s crawling all over your house.

and many more…if you are interesting you can buy the book i mentioned above.

so, even if these items are meaningless and in fact none (or very very few people) will use it for everyday use (even in Japan), Chindogu has influenced people to create invention and it also being an annual unuseless invention competition in MIT! check it out!

the winner of MIT unuseless competition

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Sharing is caring?

On one of my post, i was talking about knock-off and fake products on eBay, I mention about the images being stolen and reused somewhere else to promote these fakes. Therefore many (more) professional sellers now put some kind of ‘stamp’ or ‘watermarks’ on their pictures to avoid these pictures being stolen and misused by third-party.

Image theft are now everywhere…beware if you like to use online shopping sites like eBay because many of images shown on eBay are not the actual image of the product. We, as consumers, need to know the authenticity of the product we are buying so we are not being fooled. And the honest sellers also don’t want their pictures stolen and misused by other irresponsible sellers.

So,basically…..Online theft is everywhere!not only on online shopping websites, somebody can also steal idea from our blogpost/images from our blog which can really make us, bloggers, disappointed.

a fellow blogger from a blog that I enjoy reading once commented on his own blog: “I don’t ask for money, but please, acknowledge the source if you cite any of my post,” (his blog is about his life in Japan, and he often writes about tips/fun fact about living in Japan and Japanese culture, and because his blog is really good, many of his post were posted on some forum without him being acknowledged, his blog not being referred even once), you can see his blog here, but his blog is using Indonesian, so I apologise for non-Indonesian speakers.

yes, for some of us, internet users, acknowledgement of our intellectual property, of something we write, is kinda important. Unfortunately, for others, it’s not even worth a penny so they don’t think that it’s actually important to write the source. Surely, the blogger I mentioned above, he’s not looking for money, I’m sure he won’t be mad that his post being replicated and posted in an online forum, as long as his blog is mentioned in the forum.

This is one of the examples of Creative Commons.

OK, I need to explain some basic things about creative commons to share this important knowledge to readers/other bloggers.

So basically, creative commons is some kind of copyright, but it’s more simple and nicer. By setting up a creative commons, a user give a permission for other people to re-use their intellectual property (usually under the condition that it’s for non-commercial use).

Before becoming a blogger, I didn’t really pay attention about creative commons, intellectual property, copyright or any thing similar. For me, this matter was kinda vague, especially the things you put on internet. To put it simple, the old me (before being a blogger, and know more about this matter) thought that it’s the risk of putting something online. You cannot really track when people use and grab your material and publish it somewhere else. So I always thought that “you know what the risk is by putting your work online, it will be easily stolen, and if you still prefer to put it online, you are just one step away of being stolen.”

But after starting my blog (and knowing how hard it is to come up with idea of what to write without plagiarizing other people’s work), I totally changed my mind. As I said before, writing something clever and post it on blog is not easy…and knowing somebody else just steal it, copy and paste it somewhere else is just devastating.

Here is what I am thinking now: “why do people have no respect of other people’s works. Mentioning the source is not a difficult thing to do, really, you just need to put the link of the source, so people who are reading will be able to find the source and by that, you have given thank to the one who create it. as simple as that! Why do people like to take credit of thing they don’t own? Or they are just simply ignorant?”

while I’m typing this, I am actually ashamed of myself

I am was am was(uh whatever) a pirate!

I admit, I didn’t really pay more respect on intellectual property before. Especially on things I found via google (mainly images), I rarely checked about its creative commons or copyrights( well, I should say that I didn’t really understand about creative commons until I studied Net Communications this semester), and I just assumed that if I can save the file, it’s ok to save, copy and paste it into somewhere else. I then realized that most of those images I found online using Google are actually ‘subject to copyright’ (when you click image you found on google, this ‘Image may be subject to copyright.’ also appears below the image) when I browsed image for my header weeks ago. I just realized that these images are actually being sold, they are not there for free, you need to purchase the license to use it online, for example is the cartoon images from cartoonstock, when you reuse it and post the image into your blog (even if your blog is noncommercial blog), you need to buy the license, from as low as $10 per year.

Of course not all of these things need to be purchased, but still, copyrighted files are everywhere online…sometimes we just don’t pay attention, and easily reproduce it. At least, it will be nice if you mention the source, respect the true owner of that idea.

And therefore, for this blog, I put a tiny creative commons symbol (but not sure the readers will notice/ know what the meaning of that symbol). You can also make your own HERE.

As Marc Garcelon (2009: 292) explains, the CC logo basically means: I am okay if you want to use some material of this blog as long as it’s for noncommercial use. (oh and by the way, I am also aware, that some items or ideas featured on my blog may also subject to copyright and I try my best to acknowledge the source (hence, no copyright infringement intended!). and here’s the real description from creativecommons.org:

You are free:

  • to Share — to copy, distribute and transmit the work
  • to Remix — to adapt the work

Under the following conditions:

Attribution — You must attribute the work in the manner specified by the author or licensor (but not in any way that suggests that they endorse you or your use of the work).

so please, if you use any of my blogpost from this blog, acknowledge my blog. And not only my blog, everything you re-use/re-post/copy-paste from online source, please…oh please, acknowledge the source (but don’t…please don’t…cite wikipedia on your essay, it’s an open source and not all the information there is reliable. so if you do thta, there’s a chance that you will fail miserably :P )

and lastly, some tips!

here I found some useful websites that explain how to prevent image theft or other intellectual property online:

Khulsey.com

Netmechanic.com

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i desperately need some comments…

JUST JOKING…

but, well…let’s start thinking about commenting on blog…how sad is it to find many interesting blogs without any comment from the readers?(uhm, I’m not saying mine is a good blog, nowhere near that category for now. but i want my blog to be the one that attracts many readers someday ;P )

so, hands up if you are the type that leave comment on the blog that you read. anyone? My little confession: I never comment on blogs that i don’t know who the owner are. so I only comment on my friends’ blogs (not all, just my closed friends).

the thing is, sometimes I read blog that i think is so good, but i just don’t bother to leave any remark that I was actually there, reading the blog with enjoyment. so if I put myself on the reader’s shoes, I,too, never comment. (and yet I’m asking for a comment now?how pathetic?!lol)

Geert lovink has an argument that is interesting to discuss:

“Blogs create communities of like-minded people. Debates happen within homogenous webclouds… Most bloggers would admit that it is not their aim to foster public debate. If you disagree with a fellow blogger, it is even unwise to write a comment. Instead, it is much safer to post the remark on your own blog. “I blogged you”. the chance that someone will respond to it is almost zero. Herein is the limit of blogging.”

What Lovink put as his point is true. I always hesitate to put my comment on someone’s blog, especially if I don’t agree with what they are trying to say. I always avoid controversy especially with strangers (who knows that someday you will meet someone you once argued online?how if this person is your future boss?lol).

There are 2 types of people. the first one is just like me, the one who will never able to argue with people they don’t know (my reason is: thinking of online situation as real situation, would you bash someone you don’t know at the first time you guys both meet?I don’t think so). the second one is, on the other hand, the people who feel comfortable to argue with people they never meet, and they feel like that because they don’t feel attached with the people they argue with (and sometimes, these people are usually very nice in the real life, they don’t act like b*tch like when they are arguing online). Discussing something online or arguing over something is one common online culture. Take example of Youtube comments, how often do we find Youtube users arguing over the video that someone think the video is funny, but other may think it is (for example) racist? fans vs haters of (let’s say) Justin Bieber? and how often the argument become more and more personal such as: “can’t you spell? your comment show how uneducated you are.” Well, when it comes to online discussion, sometimes we forget about Netiquette, we go too far, just because we don’t know who we are talking too and feel safe to mock/badmouth people.

whoops, I’m nearly out of topic now. (sorry, I always ramble around)

Back to the topic…would you comment on random blog?

so far, people who ever commented on my blogs (yes, i have several blogs before) are my friends. once, i receive a comment on my blog and i don’t know who is the one who commented. I was really curious and i felt the urge to find who s/he was because that blog was my personal blog and only my best friends commented on it. so here it is, i got comment, but i actually don’t like it lol.

the other time, to promote this blog, i put a link of one of my recent post on my Facebook profile. From the blog statistics, i know that some of my friends read it. but again, none of my friend comment on my blog. They did comment….on my Facebook profile….lol

and the day after, one of my friends said, “i actually read your blog yesterday and wanted to comment, but i felt hesitate.” i asked,”why?”. She answered, “well, to comment on your blog, i just don’t feel right. It may just be meaningless comment.  err, anyway, are comments counted as the assessment of your blog assignment?if yes, i’ll comment. but if not, i tell you what i think about your blog now, right away.”

So, probably, to participate in online blogging is not an easy thing. we may be afraid of saying ‘ I disagree’ on someone’s blog. and even to say ‘I agree,’ is not an easy thing to do or we simply think it’s meaningless (in fact it’s really meaningful to get someone commenting on your blog, trust me). we are afraid of people’s judgement.

and now, if you ask me, “what would I do if a reader say s/he disagree of what i posted on my blog and s/he criticise me via comment?” Honestly I don’t know. I know I should be a moderator of my own blog, I should reply in a clever way without creating further controversy. I don’t want to be known as a ‘basher’ or make people don’t want to comment anymore on my blog just because  I easily become agitated. I will surely lose my potential readers because of that.

so tough choice, would you rather have zero comment?or many many comments on your blog that disagree with your idea (or worse scenario: two readers are arguing over your idea). would we rather disable comment feature from your blog if your post contain controversy (like what Claire Write advised in Lovink’s Blogging, the Nihilist  Impulse p.28, so you don’t need to deal with possibility of zero comment)? Yet, David Weinberger(Ibid, p.28) sees blogs as a medium for people to communicate with each other. so comment feature is kinda necessary based on this argument. hmmm, confusing.

so, yes, because i enable you to comment on my blog means:  i need some comments!

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World Cup 2010 frenzy…on your mobile

with the opening ceremony of World Cup 2010 just in about 1 months from now, you may already have considered which country you support. and you also have been thinking to buy some stuffs to show your soon-to-be-hardcore-supporter-action before the world cup begin.

If you like to shine and stand out (and if you like anything with blink) you should grab one of this cute phone case…

They are the new series of DSStyles’s swarovski phone cases, the World Cup Series which are available on DSStyle web: (more pics available on the web)

World Cup Crystalized Swarovski iPhone case

Here’s the description of the product (i directly quote it from the web):

Human feast, fan’s carnival – 2010 FIFA World Cup is coming. Expresse your infectious enthusiasm to support your favorite team. Release your love to the fullest. Bring along with this World Cup Crystallized Swarovski Case – Shining and Distinctive as your heroes. No doubt loyal fan is you, special fan is you. You are another shinny star in the world.

Each iPhone 3G / 3GS case is featuring over 1,500 pcs of Crystallized Swarovski Elements, with beautiful graphics and designs, this brand new iPhone case is the necessity that you don’t want to leave behind. All crystals are 100% genuine Crystallized Swarovski Elements with fabulous quality that makes your iPhone 3G / 3GS blinging when you hold it in your hands.

From almost USD$300, they’ve been discounted to USD$183. It’s still …. PRICEY, i know….(“and it’s a phone case, not the mobile itself! you can get a mobile phone with that money!” so does my brain screams!) but, oh well, it’s made from genuine swarovski, what do you expect? (and my illogical heart says: “it’s pretty!” lol)

just make sure, if you finally decide to grab one of them, that the country you support will go through the next round of the match…otherwise, you don’t have plenty of time to show your support, and you maybe feel ashamed to wear this blink phone case :P

so, which country do you pick?

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